Self-pity is a big fat tantrum that leads to depression because you lost your inner compass. You made a detour that lead to a path with no light at the end.
You are now open to negative influence because with darkness around, you don’t have light to see the origin of anything that comes your way. You walk around blind in a pit of self-pity.
And when no one turns around to look at you and validate your woes, you decide to do whatever it takes….
Whatever it takes to get noticed.
Little did you know that the cure for self-pity is responsibility. It’s growing up and accepting the things you can’t fix and fixing the things you can. It’s finding another route. It’s finding the bridge back to your main route. And when you find it, there is light and you can now see what exactly you are up against.
You are in control, more than you know. You have a voice even if you think no one is listening and you can change YOUR world, one day at a time. You decide what you choose to see each day.